Saturday, 27 July 2019

Day 34: The fear of being wrong

Here's one point that I had to face this week.
I have realize that people's fear of being wrong will overide any common sense they could have.
It's probably the reason why it's so hard to change as a society.
Since the day we are born, our definition of what's right or wrong is programmed within us, and everything that's become a threat for those program that we have accepted and allowed by onself will trigger a survival response. 

People will violently protect their point of view or oppinion even if they are completely irrational. Unfortunetaly, this is not without concequence. All those oppinions, point of views are dividing us, because we have never take the time to define any guideline on a collective level.

If we would set the guideline of what's best for all as a way to direct ourselve, we would eliminate almost every debate, because at the end every debate is about oneself trying to protect their own self-interest. The ironic thing with this is that in a world that is best for all our self interest would be fulfill anyway.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the concequence of my points of views.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create separation between me and other human being because of a conflict of oppinions.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being wrong.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to no realize that right or wrong will always generate friction and therefore create more suffering on this planet.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to no realize that when you truly know something, you don't feel the need to protect it. Therefore, everything I feel threaten, I should look at what's beLIEfs I am holding on to and be willing to challenge those programmed beliefs.

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