Saturday 18 July 2020
Day 76 : 7. The Principle of Give as You Would Like to Receive
Considering the context and the lives of each individual being. Considering, regarding, and supporting them in the way that I would have liked to be considered, regarded, and supported had I been in their place and lived their life, where the support that I give does not compromise myself or cause harm to anyone. ( Source : https://desteni.org/about-us/desteni-principles)
The way I lived this principle is that I put myself in the other person shoes like if it was me in another life. Based on the 8 stage of the process I can clearly see where the person is at, what they are ready to hear and what they need to hear. With that starting point in mind I will support that person as I would like to have been support where I was there. When I was delusional for example, I was grateful that someone confront me on this fact and lead me to be self-honest. Later on I was able to see how lying to myself was preventing me to changing for real.
So does give as I would like to receive mean that I will give a hug to every person that I met. Fuck no! I certain case a person will need a tap on the back, but in other case some person need a kick in the ass ( A wake up call). So I am not interested about offering people what they want, I am interested of offering them what they need. Because I am clear within the principle that I am standing for, it's easy to direct myself moment to moment to know what's the best thing to do in every situation. That's exactly how I would like to be treat. I don't want anybody to support my delusion, so I will not do that for anyone else.
Of course it's a process, and I cannot be perfect on this from the start. But as I move on and learn from my mistake.
On a collective level, the actual system is based on competition. It make it very hard to give as we would like to receive because we are all busy about our own survival. The ultimate way to give as I would like to receive will be to stand as a groups and change the system so we can cooperate with each other to create a better world for everyone. Within the limitation of the current system, I can still do my best to create win win win situation.
Friday 3 July 2020
Day 75 : 6. The Principle of Self-Awareness
An active reflection and seeing of what is happening
inside myself - my thoughts, emotions, feelings, reactions, and
understanding that I am at all times responsible for what I accept and
allow and what I participate in and thus give my power and attention to.
To realize that my words become deeds and thus the words I allow within
become the actions and consequences I create without. ( source https://desteni.org/about-us/desteni-principles)
I had an interesting experience with Self-Awareness. I always know about self-awareness, but I wasn't really able to lived it without really grasping it why. I remember when I read the books the power of now from Eckart Tolle, I realize that I could actually observe my emotions/feeling and thought. Even if I was aware of that, my mind was still in auto pilot and my level of self-awareness was still pretty low. In fact I had no idea how my mind was actually working. I had no idea where those thought/emotion/feeling was coming from. Since the consumerism have take over the world of personal development, reading some books and listening to some audio on the subject wasn't really helping. Everyone seems to have a different perspective about how the mind works, what's a thought etc.
It's only when I have been expose to the Desteni tools that I start to actually understanding how the mind was created. The cool thing was that I didn't to believe anything, I could look up myself and see it first hand in the real world. As I started using the tools offer by Desteni, my self awarness start to increase to a level that I had never experience before. Having a higher level of self-awarness allowed me to take a greater level of self responsibility. It allowed me to change to the core. It allowed me to respond completely differently to the challenge of life. Now I can clearly see, that very few people can experience real self-awarness. I can see how Eckart Tolle students will be stuck their entire life.
Being Self-Aware allowed me to see the lie that I have become. For the first time I started to see clearly how I have deceiving myself and other. I also to start how everyone else was deceiving and manipulating each other. It was crazy. I see the world for what it is : Absolute deception. It was a hard pill to swallow but the good news was that I had finally a way out. I have to walk in reverse.
I had an interesting experience with Self-Awareness. I always know about self-awareness, but I wasn't really able to lived it without really grasping it why. I remember when I read the books the power of now from Eckart Tolle, I realize that I could actually observe my emotions/feeling and thought. Even if I was aware of that, my mind was still in auto pilot and my level of self-awareness was still pretty low. In fact I had no idea how my mind was actually working. I had no idea where those thought/emotion/feeling was coming from. Since the consumerism have take over the world of personal development, reading some books and listening to some audio on the subject wasn't really helping. Everyone seems to have a different perspective about how the mind works, what's a thought etc.
It's only when I have been expose to the Desteni tools that I start to actually understanding how the mind was created. The cool thing was that I didn't to believe anything, I could look up myself and see it first hand in the real world. As I started using the tools offer by Desteni, my self awarness start to increase to a level that I had never experience before. Having a higher level of self-awarness allowed me to take a greater level of self responsibility. It allowed me to change to the core. It allowed me to respond completely differently to the challenge of life. Now I can clearly see, that very few people can experience real self-awarness. I can see how Eckart Tolle students will be stuck their entire life.
Being Self-Aware allowed me to see the lie that I have become. For the first time I started to see clearly how I have deceiving myself and other. I also to start how everyone else was deceiving and manipulating each other. It was crazy. I see the world for what it is : Absolute deception. It was a hard pill to swallow but the good news was that I had finally a way out. I have to walk in reverse.
Thursday 2 July 2020
Day 74: 5. The Principle of Self-Responsibility
Living and applying my ability to respond within the
realization that I alone am responsible for what I accept and allow
inside myself, my relationships, and my outside world. Only I have the
power and ability to change that which is compromising who I am, what I
live, and how this affects others.( source : https://desteni.org/about-us/desteni-principles
The principle of Self-Responsibility is one of the most empowering concept I have ever been exposed to. The principle of self-responsibility implies that I am the only one that can create change in my life. For many years, I was convinced that I was taking responsibility for everything in my life. I didn't know how wrong I was. Even if I wasn't blaming anything outside of me and saying that I was taking responsibility for everything in my life, I was far from living it. Why? because I had no idea that I was really living the outcome of a pre-program design. Therefore, A higher level of responsibility imply that I must take responsibly for everything that I have accepted and allowed as a part of my structural programming. I must realize the outcome of a programming that is not considering all life. A programming that is based on survival will never have an outcome that is best for all life.I must realize that sooner or later, a collective programming based on self-interest will lead to our own annihilation.
What I end up realizing is that Self-responsibility is in fact a process. I must work on expanding my level of self-responsibility more and more every single day. I must investigate how I am limiting my responsibility and see how I can the highest level possible of responsibility in this world. Walking my own process is a way of expending, my level of responsibility, because it allow me to have a greater level of awareness of the consequence of everything that I say, do or even believe. I must then use the tool to change that fundamental programming for a programming that is the best for all life. That way, I will also benefits on a individual level as well, because by doing what's best, I end up the inner conflict within me.
The principle of Self-Responsibility is one of the most empowering concept I have ever been exposed to. The principle of self-responsibility implies that I am the only one that can create change in my life. For many years, I was convinced that I was taking responsibility for everything in my life. I didn't know how wrong I was. Even if I wasn't blaming anything outside of me and saying that I was taking responsibility for everything in my life, I was far from living it. Why? because I had no idea that I was really living the outcome of a pre-program design. Therefore, A higher level of responsibility imply that I must take responsibly for everything that I have accepted and allowed as a part of my structural programming. I must realize the outcome of a programming that is not considering all life. A programming that is based on survival will never have an outcome that is best for all life.I must realize that sooner or later, a collective programming based on self-interest will lead to our own annihilation.
What I end up realizing is that Self-responsibility is in fact a process. I must work on expanding my level of self-responsibility more and more every single day. I must investigate how I am limiting my responsibility and see how I can the highest level possible of responsibility in this world. Walking my own process is a way of expending, my level of responsibility, because it allow me to have a greater level of awareness of the consequence of everything that I say, do or even believe. I must then use the tool to change that fundamental programming for a programming that is the best for all life. That way, I will also benefits on a individual level as well, because by doing what's best, I end up the inner conflict within me.
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