Day 21 : Be willing to be wrong

We all find ourselves debating from time to time.
When we really look at what a debate really is we can clearly see that there's something really dysfunctional about it.
The ego will do everything to be right.
A debate between 2 person are in fact 2 egos that are afraid to be wrong and defending there position.
If we would have common sense, the debate would be completely different.
If starting point of a debate would be to determine what's best for all, we could take information from both side of the coins and mutually agree on what's best based on real fact instead of trying to protect irrational beliefs.

Here's an example. 2 person are debating about health. One person believe in the current medical model, the other person believe in the natural cures.

The first person argument could look like : The current medical model is the leading edge of medicine and natural remedies are ineffective scam. If you believe in natural cures, you are a hippie.

The second person argument could look like : The current medical model is completely corrupt and it is design to make us sick. Natural cures do work, you are just to brainwashed too see it, because the information is suppress by the media.

Then the debate is starting. They will both violently defend their position without listening to the other person point, because their oppinion could be a threat to their paradigm.

If we would look at this debate from the perspective of trying to find what's best for all, the debate would look like this. Let sit together and investigate what's working in the medical model and what's not working. Let's investigate what's working, and what's not working in the natural cures. They let's together agree on what is best for all.

Notice that I have use the word "what's working" instead of "what's good" because what's good have a tendency to direct a person toward an opinions. What's working can be observed through number, and life experience for example.

They could end up realizing that a blend of of the medical model and the natural model would an approach that is best for all.

The problem right now, is that it is very hard to get the real data, because of our current money system based on competition. This system need to be change so, no corruption would be needed in order to survive. In a money system that value life, the health care system would radically shift. From what I have observe so far, I think that a disease free planet would even be possible overtime.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to debate

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that debates are dividing each other and prevent us to move forward towards a world that is best for all

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that people in power use debate to divide population to maintain their power

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to reject other people points of views without even considering it

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be afraid to be wrong

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think that being wrong was a threat to my survival, when in fact it is just a fake identity created by my mind that is afraid to be wrong.  

Day 20 : Ostrich effect and positive thinking

What does ostrich when they feel are afraid ?
They buries their head in the sand.
That way they are not aware of the danger anymore, so they can maintain their fake sens of security.
In reality, they put themselves in greater trouble.  If they would face the treat, they would have a better chance to survive, because they could respond appropriately to the situation.

Did you hear that "positive thinker" ?

While you avoid the "negative" and focus only on the "positive" those who are leading the current system, are  laughing at you, like a predator would laugh of an ostrich that buries his head in the sand when they are about to be eaten. In our case, the people in control of this system will not eat you, but they will extract every single dollars they can from you until you die.

Let be clear, positive thinking will not fix this system. Denial is not an option anymore! It's about time that we stop bullshitting ourselves with that junk.

Will you buries your head in the sand this time or will you keep reading ?

We have serious issues on this planet right now. Unfortunately, almost nobody is willing to stand up because we are all too much busy pursuing an mental conception of happiness, that have been created for profit as explain in the documentary the century of the self.

Do you want to know how to be happy? Acknowledge the state of the world, stand up and start doing something about it. And one last point, stop trying to be happy.

 When you will KNOW you are doing the right thing, you will find yourself feeling better about yourself than ever.


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that when I am in denial about what's going on, I am as stupid as an ostrich that buries his head in the sand in the face of danger

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that positive thinking is denial

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize  that I will never be able to deal with something, if I am in denial about it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that positive thinking is maintaining the current system in place

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to close my eye on the injustice of this planet

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that positive thinking is increasing the feeling of separation, therefore create more misery on this planet


* After writing this I wonder why in the world an ostrich would do that. I have done some research and realize it's a myth. So to the light of this new information, I can confirm that ostrich are way smarter than the human to deal with a threat. I have leave the blog unchanged so you can clearly get my initial point.  Here's the explanation of where the myth come from. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKoTi7Roxso

Day 19 : Take responsibilty for what's happening within me.

This week, I have learn something very significant about responsibility. I realize that taking responsibility is not just for what is happening outside of me, the most important part is  to take responsibility for what's happening within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the conflict that I have within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that this conflict that I have inside of me is the accumulation of what I have acccepted and allowed. Therefore, removing all those layers will take time consistency.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear facing this conflict within me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think that this conflict could be eliminate through knowledge.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can only beat the ego through breathing, never by knowledge.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that breathing bring me back here and now in the physical, in the real.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed my mind to fucked me up.

Day 18 : are we all possess ?

When we think about the word possess, we all have the classic image of a young girl that is possess by the devil.

When we look at the outside appearance that is pretty scary. It's in fact pretty scary that an entity could take a control of our physical body and control our life.

Fuck ! that's exactly what my mind is doing !

Before we continue, let define possess.

There's few definition, but here's the one I am looking for

 

(of a demon or spirit, especially an evil one) have complete power over (someone) and be manifested through their speech or actions.

"she was possessed by the Devil"

synonyms:

take control of, have power over, take over, have mastery over, cast a spell over,

 

That is fascinating, we are all fucking possess. We all have a voice in our head that speak all day long ( call thinking) that judge, criticize, and tag everything around us. That thinking direct what we say and do. It does seem that I have any kind of control of that thinking. It's almost like if it was an entity.

 

Is it me ? I don't think so. Therefore, my mind have possess me. 

 

I forgive myself that I haven't accepted and allowed myself to realize that I am possess by my mind.

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that if I want to become a directive force into my life, I need to deconstruct the mind layer by layer trough consistent application of  a proven process.  

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that since we are all possess, real interaction between human being are very rare. It's more 2 mind interacting with each other.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that this entity ( thought/emotion/feeling) is not who I am. 

I commit myself to work consistently to deconstruct my mind.

Day 17 : Doing our best is not enough, we have to do what is require

Well I do my best!
I hear that expression all the time, but what most people don't realize is that they use that expression as a justification , to not created change whitin themselve or in this world

What's really hiding behind that expression is I do my best so it's not my fault if I don't get the outcome.

Here's few example.

I did my best to raise my children, so if they are struggling in life, this is their fault
I did my best to stay healthy so if I am sick it's not my fault
I did my best to change, but I have not been able to.

The issue here is that our best is in fact an oppinion that is limited by our programming.

So how do we fix that ?

We need to stop doing our best, and start doing what's require.

So we need to look at those point with a new perspective.

What is require to raise child so they can reach their greatest potential?
What is require to be healthy?
What is require to change?

When we have identify what is require, then we have to take responsibilty to apply it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that in order to change, doing my best is not enough, I need to do what is require.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that in order to create a world that is best for all, we need to collectively do what is require.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that saying that doing our best is limited by our programming, therefore doing my best will not create an outcome that is best for all life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think that doing my best was enough

Day 16 : does equality would end diversity ?

When I heard about the concept of equality for the first time, I feel some resistance building within me because in my mind equality was linked to conformity.

Of course it was the results of my programming. When I started investigate this point, I realize that in our current system, we are in a society of conformity.

There's 2 aspects of this.

1. The conformity created by the fear of our neighbour. We are so afraid of being perceive as less than other people in our surrounding, that we are conforming to what the society expect us to be to fit in that fake mold created by the "image maker"

2. The conformity impose by law. If people find flaw in the system, the elite in place keep adding more law so they can maintain their status.

 As I realize that the system we currently are living in is extremely repressive, I also realize that equality would  end conformity.

In an equal world, fear would have no reason to exist, so if we don't fear our neighbour, this would end up conformity, that is created by that fear.  Every person could be themselves instead of being what the society expect them to be.

About the law, we would not need that much law in a world that is best for all since basically all crime are related to a lack of money or  a fucked education that is often related to a lack of money. Instead of law, we could have collective agreement based on the principle of best for everyone. How someone  could oppose himself to what is best for all ? A person that value his life more than other people life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that our system based on competition created conformity

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that a world of equality and oneness would end diversity

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that a world of based on the principle of equality would allow every human being to express who they really are, instead of being a fake character created by the mind to survive in a society based on competition

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my life is equally valuable than every human being life. 

Day 15: Being normal in world that is completly fucked is being fucked

Have you ever been in a country where the culture is completely different?

I did, and there's one thing that I notice. Some of the thing that they are doing does make any sense. Anybody that have common sense, would not live their life that way.

So why can't they not see that what they are doing is completely fucked?

The reason is because they are born in that culture. Their belief system have been shaped by their culture. The reason I was able to see it was because I was from another culture. The problem with that is that I had assume before that in my country we was not fucked, because I was shaped into that culture.

The problem with culture and beliefs system is that they are not based on reality. It's just a fucked up brainwashing that we are downloading in the first 7 years of our life. And since we are born in it, we can not see how fucked this is.

So how do we know, what is fucked, and what is not ?

Very simple, use common sense. Beliefs are not based on common sense. They are irrational.

If our world would be based on common sense, we would not have war
If our world would be based on common sense, we would not have poverty
If our world would be based on common sense, Every human being would have access to basic needs like clean water, shelter and food
If our world would be based on common sense, it would not be based on competition
If our world would be based on common sense, we would not depleted and polluted the ecosystem that is require to keep us alive
Etc.


So the fact is that we have given up our common sense in the name of belief and the results of this is a world that is completely fucked.

So now, if you want to be normal and conform yourself to this world, you are fucked
If you play the game of the anti-conformist punk, you are equally fucked, because you are still separating yourself from other.

So what's the way out. How could we unfucked ourselves.

Knowing that we are fucked is a great step forwards. Many people are dying without realize that simple evidence.

Then we need to find a basic point to fix our world that everyone would agree too.

Let's bring back life into the equation and bring a world that is best for all

Everyone that would not agree with that is so much brainwash with their delusional believe system that they don't have common sense anymore.

They have brainwash themselves to believe that their life was more valuable than another human being life. This is completely fucked

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that conform myself to a world that is fucked, is being fucked

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the current system in place do not value life

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the belief system that I have accepted and allowed must be change at all cost, if I want to be in a position where I support life and the creation of a world that is best for all

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that it is my responsibility to free myself from that belief system by using the proven tool

I commit to the best of my ability to devote my life, bringing a world that is best for all.